Prick Tease Essay #1 - Tease and Denial

You Can’t Always Get What You Want

There is a saying that says we always want that which we cannot have. That is true in many aspects of our lives, be it jobs, families, cars, clothing, but it is especially prevalent sexually. Many people look around and see those who are far above what they themselves are truly capable of having, yet that is what they want. People covet beauty and long to be near it and possess it. Studies have shown that men, more so than women, often attempt to date above their physical station. Meaning that each of us ranks somewhere on a level of one to ten and like numbers is what attracts. However lower numbers are attracted to higher ones and while women normally settle happily for a number similar to theirs, men long to reach higher. A man who has the physical beauty to be a four or maybe a six still wants to have a woman who is a nine or ten and will try to get her attention at any cost. Women, like cats, toy with their prey this is the basis, I believe, of the tease and denial fetish. A man attempting to reach past what he is really capable of acquiring runs the risk of being denied and most often is. Women will of course toy with him a bit first. As we have all heard women are like cats while men are like dogs. Dogs rush in expecting to get what they want; cats toy with things, be it their food or another animal, until they grow tired of it. Beautiful women will do the same thing to a foolish man. Tease and toy with him until he is exhausted or they are tired of the game and then discard and deny him without a second thought. Men however, don’t seem to understand this and insist on trying to get a woman who is not at all interested in being acquired.

The Pursuit of Teasing In their pursuit of a woman, men are easily teased and toyed with by an experienced girl. We women will often allow you to follow us around, like a dog with your tongue hanging out the side of your mouth. You make a fool of yourself in the eyes of everyone watching, but you don’t seem to notice. Instead you follow along and we tease you, giving you just enough to bring you close to us and keep you interested. Maybe we will allow you to take us to dinner and casually put our hand on your shoulder. Maybe we will dance very close to you and giggle at your jokes. Sometimes we even let you think you are really getting somewhere with us and agree to go home with you or to let you come back to our place. All of this means nothing to a tease. After all it is just a game and the man too foolish and sure of himself to stop pursuing us, goes from being the dog to being the mouse we trap between our paws and toy with until we decide we have had enough.

It Ends in Denial Once we have made the decision to toy with you, the teasing gets more intense. We may have you strip off your clothing or slowly remove some of ours in front of you. There are times when it seems that we are so interested in having sex with you that you are shocked when the denial comes and it always comes. Well almost always. Like I’ve told you, this is all about teasing and true tease never lets you know how it will end. You may think you understand and are prepared to have her pull the carpet out from under you, but you are never prepared. Men continue to pursue a woman they know they can’t get, even when the outcome is clear and she has walked away leaving him aching for more. That is why the tease is so powerful, because you are left with nothing but denial and yet there is still that hope that the next time you will be satisfied.
The teasing and denial fetish is this game exactly. A man looking for a beautiful woman who will string him along, controlling him mind, body, soul and cock, making him need her. Teasing brings you to the edge again and again and you wait and live for the one time that it does not end in denial. When does that time come? Do you always leave with nothing but a feeble pathetic hope that this time she will not laugh and tell you she changed her mind, but will instead embrace your need and satisfy you instead of leaving you denied?